Good title, don't you think so? But in this post I want to write about difficulties of being a man or a woman in our society and answer the question whose difficulties are bigger.
My answer is women's difficulties are bigger.Historically men were responsible for feeding their family, protecting countries and had many other things to do, while women were rising children cleaning house and also had different other things in different times. As one wise man said, "This world was built by white men for white men". Now practically all men's responsibilities ended, but women's remains parts of our life.
This is common information which everyone knows. I want to turn to specific level, the level of interaction between young boys and girls. Of course, as Andrew wrote in the topic, a man should be confident, masculine and may be smart and be able to earn money. But where is difficulties? This is things which are really attractive. Who can refuse to be confident? You can just do it. You should just overcome your fears. The similar things are about being strong clever and, eventually, earn money. You should just do these rather pleasant things and your will be like a dream. The contreary is about women. They should be mothers,(as I understood from some blogs, most girls are really afraid to be mothers. I hope this is temporary), they should clean the house, they should do many things, while men just "can" do many things. Women are more busy, but the real responsibility lies on men.
Having these innate differences between men and women, I can say that I don't consider as unfair all those women's whims, scandals and also something like usage of men. They know how many things they must do when she becomes a wife and then mother, so she can joy before she married. And after marriage too, but not in so big extent.
Women are the weaker sex, we should help them, gladden them and thank for life given to us and to our children.
Love women, most of them deserve it!
Thank you for attention.
My answer is women's difficulties are bigger.Historically men were responsible for feeding their family, protecting countries and had many other things to do, while women were rising children cleaning house and also had different other things in different times. As one wise man said, "This world was built by white men for white men". Now practically all men's responsibilities ended, but women's remains parts of our life.
This is common information which everyone knows. I want to turn to specific level, the level of interaction between young boys and girls. Of course, as Andrew wrote in the topic, a man should be confident, masculine and may be smart and be able to earn money. But where is difficulties? This is things which are really attractive. Who can refuse to be confident? You can just do it. You should just overcome your fears. The similar things are about being strong clever and, eventually, earn money. You should just do these rather pleasant things and your will be like a dream. The contreary is about women. They should be mothers,(as I understood from some blogs, most girls are really afraid to be mothers. I hope this is temporary), they should clean the house, they should do many things, while men just "can" do many things. Women are more busy, but the real responsibility lies on men.
Having these innate differences between men and women, I can say that I don't consider as unfair all those women's whims, scandals and also something like usage of men. They know how many things they must do when she becomes a wife and then mother, so she can joy before she married. And after marriage too, but not in so big extent.
Women are the weaker sex, we should help them, gladden them and thank for life given to us and to our children.
Love women, most of them deserve it!
Thank you for attention.
Interesting points. I think men should be confident, obviously, but I think that the men who are the MOST confident don't fit too well into the narrow standards of masculinity society expects. For example, a confident and self-assured man would feel comfortable pursuing a hobby deemed as "feminine" by society - like dance, or clothing design. But a man who has confidence issues might be inclined to diligently follow society's definitions of confidence so as to keep from being criticized.
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