Success. The main thing that all people want today is success. Almost everyone wants to have a lot of money, expensive cars, houses, holidays on the beach near the Equator and many-many other things which is considered as parts of "good" life.
There are many ways of becoming successfull. I don't want to write about all them ( and in fact it is impossible). But almost each of this ways can be divided into 2 groups: success with somebody's support and success without any of it. People from the first group are usually very good politicians, because they should making more and more relations, often flatter and lie to many people. They are very sneaky. When they have difficulties, they often need sjmebody's help, because they can't solve their own problems. They got used to solving them by somebody else, not by themselves. People who achieve success by the second way are usually rather intelligent, stubborn and actually less successful. It can be seen especially in Russia. It is very big problem for whole nation. Many clever russias live in other countries, because living conditions in Russia for people are very awful. There are many barriers for people, who want to create their own bussiness.
In reality, to be successful person should be rather clever and be a good politician to make relations with his/her partners. Onlythose persons can become successful in life.
There are many ways of becoming successfull. I don't want to write about all them ( and in fact it is impossible). But almost each of this ways can be divided into 2 groups: success with somebody's support and success without any of it. People from the first group are usually very good politicians, because they should making more and more relations, often flatter and lie to many people. They are very sneaky. When they have difficulties, they often need sjmebody's help, because they can't solve their own problems. They got used to solving them by somebody else, not by themselves. People who achieve success by the second way are usually rather intelligent, stubborn and actually less successful. It can be seen especially in Russia. It is very big problem for whole nation. Many clever russias live in other countries, because living conditions in Russia for people are very awful. There are many barriers for people, who want to create their own bussiness.
In reality, to be successful person should be rather clever and be a good politician to make relations with his/her partners. Onlythose persons can become successful in life.
Michael, I appreciate your posts for your own perspective. You define 2 ways to gain success here. But don't you think there is a gold middle between them? I want to say that we might both need other people's support and our own perseverance. I suppose this way is a bit easier than the others :)
ОтветитьУдалитьFirstly, thank you for your appreciation. It is very important for me. Honestly, when I was thinking about creating message, I was going to write about dispute with my old friend. Each of us is used to following only one of this ways. The second way is my lifestyle. I can't that it is right and, actually, I know that it is wrong. Everyone needs someone's support ans it's stupid to refuse to take assistance, but now it is my lifestyle, and I am not going to change it now. Maybe, in future, when I will be older and cleverer.
УдалитьActually, not all the people want to acheive success today. As for me, I am ready to become unsuccessful in career, business, e.t.c, but to have familiy, good health and love. In one word, I can call it happiness. And happiness in hardly definable word, but for many pepole it does not equal to success.
ОтветитьУдалитьSometimes, in moments of lonelyness, I agree with you. But I think in this age, when we are young, success is a very good purpose of life. It is a very incentive for intensive developing. We should do it now, because now we time and power for it. I agree that it is very stupid when a man aged 50-60 years is trying to be successful and don't spend time with his grandchildren. In the end, all of us will understand that happiness is the main purpose of our life, but I don't want to admit it now. Because it isn't rationally for me now:)
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